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Introduction

Youare probablyaware thatin manycountries ofthe worldthe brideand groom

don'treally knoweach otherbefore theyget married.Well, thatactually happens

inevery country.

I'veknown menand womenwho "dated"for 6,12 oreven 24months whowere

surprisedat whothe personthey marriedreally was.A womantold methat after

shewas marriedfor acouple ofmonths shefound outher husbandhated kids.A

manwrote tome tosay thathe discoveredseveral yearsinto hismarriage that

hiswife hadbeen inprison.

Othermen andwomen havebeen shockedto learnwhat theirmate thought

aboutsex, religion,careers, householdwork, moneyand thefuture. Infact, many

ofthese differenceshave ledcouples todivorce court.

Ibelieve alot fewercouples wouldget divorced(or evenmarry eachother inthe

firstplace) ifthey actuallyknew each otherwell enoughbefore theygot married.

Marriedcouples couldcut downon alot oftheir clashesif theyknow moreabout

their mates thoughts, beliefs and emotions. The best way to get to really know

someoneis withquestions.

Whetheryou havebeen dating5 monthsor havebeen marriedfor 500months,

youabsolutely mustknow thebelov eds answers to these questions.

-Michael

HowTo Usethe Questions

Youneed touse acertain amountof wisdomwith these1,000 questions.

Someone who has just begun dating shouldnt accelerate the relationship by

starting off with questions on marriage and sex. If you dont think you and your

partnerare quiteready tocommit toone another,it wouldbe bestto startoff with

thequestions onpersonality, yourpast experiences,favorites andperhaps pets

tostart. Thebest relationshipsare builton asolid friendshipso firstaddress the

questionsthat willhelp buildthat base.

Somepeople willwant toanswer fouror fivequestions ina sitting.Others might

liketo spendseveral hoursand answer50 ormore. Somepeople willwant toput

thequestions inletters andmail themto eachother onthe sameday soyour

answers dont influence each others. Those with computers might find email to

bea goodway toget toknow eachother (andeven keepthe emailsfor future

reference).

Donot avoidcertain questionsjust becauseyou findthem uncomfortableor even

embarrassing.Break downthat communicationbarrier andlearn tobe ableto

talkabout thoseissues withyour partner.If someoneis unwillingto talkabout

certainissues, itshould throwup aflag forpotential problemsdown theroad. If

you dont think a question applies to you, ask it anyway. Your partner might have

someinteresting thoughtson thematter.

Thereare questionsthat arenot inthe book,for goodreason. Whileit is

importantto talkabout yoursexual likesand dislikes,giving toomuch detail

aboutyour sexualpasts canbe harmfulto arelationship. Yourmate needsto

knowif youhave beensexually activebut doesnot needto knowdates, times,

locations, positions, etc. Be honest in your answers, but you dont need to paint

vividdetails ofany ofyour pastmistakes. Youhave tolive withthose memories;

dont make your mate have to as well.

NotSet inStone

Bothof youneed torealize thatyour answersto manyof thesequestions will

changeover time.How youfeel rightnow abouthaving childrenmight changein

fiveyears. Youmight thinkcountry lifewould suityou finebut onceyou moveout

inthe middleof nowhereyou mightfeel lonely.Just becauseyour partner

answers a question a certain way, dont expect him to always feel that way.

You might be the first person to answer a question and you might say, Religion

is for weaklings. Your partner might then give his or her answer that convinces

you that you are wrong. Dont be ashamed to change your mind. But also be on

guardagainst thetemptation togive answersjust likeyour partnerso heor she

willlike youmore.

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